A father returns home after a long day of work. He just wants to see the football game without having to put up with screaming kids or doing household chores. But on this day, his wife can not take it anymore and leaves. His world crumbles when you are left alone with their children. These are his words:
Two days had a big fight. I got home from work tired. It was 20:00 and all I wanted to do was sit and watch the game.
When I saw you, they were exhausted and cranky. The kids were fighting and the baby was crying while he was trying to put it to sleep.
I just turned the TV volume.
‘would not kill you to help a little and become more involved in the education of their children, “you told me upset, while down the TV volume.
answered me angrily: “I’ve been working all day so you can stay at home playing with the dollhouse.”
The argument went on and on. You cried because you were angry and tired. I said cruel things to you. You shouted, saying he could not take it anymore. You left the house crying and left me alone with the children.
had to feed me to dinner and prepare children for bed. The next day he had not yet returned and I had to ask my boss for a day off to stay and babysit.
who experienced the tantrums and tears.
I experienced having to run around all day does not have free time to even take a bath.
I experienced having to heat the milk, get a child dressed and clean the kitchen all at the same time.
I experienced being cooped up all day without talking to anyone over 10 years old.
I experienced being unable to sit well on a table to enjoy a quiet meal in my own time, for the sake of having to run behind a child.
I experienced being so mentally and physically exhausted that all I wanted to do was sleep straight through for 20 hours straight, but had to wake up three hours after falling asleep because the baby was crying.
who they lived two days and two nights in their shoes and I can say, I understand.
I get your fatigue.
him that being a mother is a constant sacrifice.
I get is more tiring to be among large enterprises shots for 10 hours and making financial decisions.
I have the frustration of giving up his profession and economic freedom so you can be there for your children.
I have the uncertainty of economic security does not depend on longer, but your partner.
to get the sacrifices they make for not going out with friends, exercising or sleeping all night.
I get how hard it can be to be locked and having to take care of children while feeling you are losing what is going on outside.
also gets you become annoyed when my mother criticizes her way to raise our children, because nobody knows what is best for children as his own mother.
it leaves me it means to be a mother who carries the biggest burden on society. Which no one appreciates, values or unpaid.
I am writing this letter not only to let you know that I miss you, but because I do not want to spend another day without that I said
‘You’re very brave, they are doing very well and I admire you.’ “
This emotional letter has been shared on Facebook more than 110,000 times. For all those mothers who care for us and do so much for us, but sometimes we take for granted, this letter is for you. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!